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Association Information
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In 1989 the old folks, Class of
1949, had their 40th reunion. They decided it would
be good to invite every class they attended high school with;
1947, 1948, when they were sophomores and 1950, and 1951 when
they were seniors. Someone, probably the grandfather of
the DHSAA-Wayne Wylie, convinced them to go on a year more each
way to cover Freshman. So 1946, 1947, 1948,
1949, 1950,1951, and 1952 were contacted. It was a
rousing success! That’s how we got to DHS Students
instead of just Alumni. In going through annuals they
didn’t really know whether all had stayed until
graduation. We had our own celebrity and the reunion was
mentioned on the Johnny Carson Show. Rue McClannahan, of
TheGolden Girls TV show, attended and told Johnny that
Pookie Roberts looked just like he did when she left
Durant. Her eyes were going even then.
The next year, due chiefly to the efforts
of Wayne and Gail Wylie, the Durant Alumni Association was
incorporated as a non-profit organization. Tom Criswell
III, one of our alumni who is an attorney, did the legal work.
Each year since then we have been rollin and strollin.
Growth has been slow due chiefly, to the fact that
most of the younger classes haven’t participated.
Actually, I guess they are not yet old enough to realize
there time and friends are slipping away. It seems the
older we get the more we seem to appreciate our really old
friends. OR would it be more politically correct to say
‘mature friends?’
Since it’s establishment we have
added the awarding of Scholarships to some deserving DHS
students. DHSAA itself controls who gets these. I
forget how many we have given away, but the number must be
about 10 so far. We also try to keep everyone informed on
his or her classmates via a monthly newsletter. The
efficiency of this depends on YOU reporting what’s going
on with you and your class. Without YOU furnishing the
news, there will only be a letter with NO NEWS in it.
Each year it seems we pick up another
class or two to join with us in a common cause. Many have
remarked that it has been a lot of fun. In (1999) the
Class of 1954 threw their lot in with us on their 45th.
For the most part the years ’50 thru ’55 are
doing most of the work on material and mail outs. Wayne &
Gail Wylie (’51 & ’52) maintains the class
rosters and Gail is our treasurer. Those jobs themselves
are tremendous. Gail also works on locations, etc.
Wayne maintains the addresses for mail outs. We
need some class members to volunteer to help track down missing
members for individual classes. Some of our addresses are
seriously out dated.
Currently we seem to have our most
difficulty getting the Sixties up to participate, attend, and
support these annual get-to-gatherings. The ‘60s
are just now getting to the age the ‘40s and ‘50s
were when we started supporting this organization.
’49 thru ’55 seem to have kept the reunions
going as far as participation goes. However we got a lot
of interest expressed, in recent year, by a few of the
Upper ‘50s and up that attended. If you don’t come
and join us you won’t have a chance to tell what you
would like to see changed. It’s kinda like
this. I don’t think my Political Vote is going to
change anything, but I do it anyway. Then I’ve got
a right to gripe. That, by the way hasn’t done any
good either.
Allow me one more example and analogy.
I’ve heard the gripes that our music is too old.
I don’t see it that way, because I like the
‘50s music. Since we do the planning and work we do
it our way for the entertainment of our years. However,
the ‘60s were some of my better years, even though I was
out of high school. But, I digress, as usual. Those
of you who gripe about the protocol or format of the evening
– how about you running it and make the changes. Bo
Hearon once had a service station. In the office he had a
coffee pot with an empty can for donations. One day I asked him
how much should be put in for coffee. You could get a cup
at a restaurant then for about a dime. He said,
“Do like most people and don’t put anything
in.” Being rather cheap, I didn’t put any
thing in. I took one swig of that coffee and put in 50
cents. He said, “There is no need in that and
besides, that’s too much.” I said, “No,
Bo, I’ve got to put something in.”
“This is undoubtedly the worst coffee I’ve
ever tasted and if I don’t pay I don’t have a gripe
coming.” “As bad as this is, I want to do a
lot of griping.”
Please, have your year host a reunion.
Work with us. Our reunions run several thousand
dollars a year. That’s a lot of money for a single
class to afford. Especially if your numbers are
dwindling. We know some have to travel long distances and
an annual reunion may seem too often. When you are old
enough that the years get shorter, you’ll enjoy the
reunions more. These reunions are excellent ways for
class members to meet and begin preparations for their own year
to host. The association has many class rosters and is
willing to help out with the work. Many of us are retired
and have the time to help.
Any of you who have attended, and were
not favorably impressed, we hope you will write us and give us
some suggestions to make it better. Something you would
like to attend. Better yet, you host the reunion and
we’ll come. I can’t promise no one will
gripe, but I assure you I won’t.
ADDRESSES AND PHONE NUMBERS:
Durant Alumni Association, P. O. Box
1534, Durant, Ok. 74702, Phone: 580-924-8513.
Wayne & Gail Wylie: SAME AS ABOVE.
Email Wayne: wawc@communicomm.com
Eligible MEMBERSHIP:
Rather than strictly Alumni,
membership is open to all students who attended DHS anytime.
Even if you didn’t attend High School in Durant,
you are still eligible, if you want to be. We have
non-graduate members as far away as Ireland. Graduation Class
Association should be the class you would have graduated with
had you remained at DHS.
Membership Cost: None. It takes
money to support any organization. DHSAA is a licensed
nonprofit corporation and donations are therefore deductible.
Our postage alone runs approximately $2000 per year.
ALL DONATIONS GRACIOUSLY ACCEPTED AND APPRECIATED.
Anything---$1 and up. $1 will buy three stamps.
This would take care of one individual mailing and
one-half of another.
REUNION DATES AND ACTIVITIES: Normally
the first full weekend after July 4th. Sometimes the
Lodge will change our date because of the 4th falling Friday
through Monday. We have a mixer and social Friday
evening. The past few years it has been at the Bryan
County Community Bldg. FOR ALL Classes combined. However,
it attendance continues to increase we will have to look for a
larger place. Fire Marshall rules. Admission, $7.00
per head at the door for the Friday meeting, but no one will be
turned away. Punch and snacks furnished. No Booze.
Some of our alumni are still under 21.
Saturday Evening a short meeting and
dinner, about 7 p.m.. Price $30 per head. Then
dancing and a great deal of ”bull shooting”.
Sometimes even some truth comes out. A lot of old
memories of when we were smarter, stronger, and irresistibly
good-looking. People that you had no interest in become
good friends and old friends become better friends.
Anytime from before Friday night and
during or after the weekend individual classes arrange for some
private gatherings. For example, in 2001, the classes of
51 and ?52 met at Wayne & Gail Wylie?s home.
‘50 met at Gordon & Glenna (Anderson)
Wright’s home. ‘55 met at Harold
Haddock’s home. Other facilities that can be used
for larger gatherings. Elks Club (must be sponsored by a
local member), Country Club (member required), several motels
have suites. Contact a local member of your class to make
these arrangements. If you have any trouble contact Wayne
& Gail Wylie or C. J. Wood. They will help it they
can.
ASSOCIATION SUPPORTED by:
1. As I said before Donations
Greatly Appreciated.
2. The income from the Friday and
Saturday activities plus donations, in the past, has been
sufficient. We hope it will always do so. It might
be good to mention here that when we use the Lodge we a
discount if enough rooms are rented. If you make Lodge
reservations make sure you tell them you are with the Durant
Reunion.
I’m sure that the individuals that
make the reservation arrangements feel better when enough
reservation money comes in to cover the cost of the
reservations made. Last year the Reunion/Homecoming
expenses were between $3500 and $4000. This includes
postage, printing, decorations, and Lodge cost for both Friday
and Saturday Nights. Someone has to sign for these.
Some of our more talented alumni help keep cost low on
the printing and some chip in to help on postage.
GOALS AND PROJECTS:
1. One of our goals is to keep old
friends and schoolmate in contact. This is done by way of
the annual reunions/homecomings. In doing so this helps
Durant by bringing in revenue.
2. Work with the schools to advance their
educational goals. Last year we voted to donate a
scholarship to a needy, deserving, graduating senior. One
who just needs a little leg up to get started. The school
councilors provide names of candidates, but the Association has
the last say. We presented our first scholarship for the
school year ‘99-’00. This scholarship is
supported by donations and memorials in honor of Alumni and/or
Teachers who have passed on to their greater rewards.. We
are registered Non-Profit Organization and donations are
deductible.
3. We would like to put out a monthly
newsletter, but the cost is prohibitive. We will try to
do the next best thing and put out an EMAIL NEWSLETTER.
Many do not have a computer, but perhaps they know
someone who does and can at least visit our website for
information. We have a mini reunion on the 1st Saturday
of each month at the Branding Iron Restaurant. It is a
meeting and ‘bull session’. More laughing and
bull than meeting. We may try to make an email newsletter
from that. However, we would appreciate news from all of
you that we might spread around. We have something like
600 email addresses. Please forward us any addresses you might
have so we can reach as many as possible.
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